Weaving a life

Are you a specialist or a generalist? Can you fit all your interests into one job, or do they spill out over the edges?

It’s a question that interests me because I’ve never been able to fit all of my interests, my personality, my strengths into one job. I always leave something at the office door.

Maybe this is normal, I don’t know.

We start out in life fascinated by so much, little sponges soaking up language and learning, our favourite subjects at school might be as diverse as art, astronomy and cookery, yet we are forced to choose as we get older.

Art versus science, trade versus a degree, adventure versus security, practical work versus academic work, physical movement versus sitting all day at a desk, fresh air versus an open plan office, making a difference in the world versus making money; we cut out options until we are left with one narrow beam of focus leading us into one narrow career and one particular lifestyle.

Maybe some people follow their passions into this narrowing of choices and end up exactly where they want to be. I really hope so, as that’s the way the world seems to be set up.

But what about those people it doesn’t work for? Who follow the rules, do what’s expected, work hard and then find themselves stuck, half way up the career ladder, unable to climb down, not wanting to climb further up, and afraid to jump off. They look around at a landscape of tall ladders, other careers, and none of them are appealing. What then?

Maybe it’s just not possible to fit everything into one job, and a diverse life can be created, leaving plenty of time for hobbies, for family and friends, for volunteering, for exercise, leaving time to just be. But full time work doesn’t leave much time, and a badly fitting job sucks vitality from other parts of life, leaving no energy for anything other than an evening spent in front of the tv.

I’ve tried various approaches, interesting part time jobs that allowed me time to paint, write, go for walks, practise tai chi. Working full time for a while then taking time out to travel or do creative projects. But always I wonder if it’s possible to weave it all together into one coherent whole, to make a difference and to avoid the times when jobs or income are not forthcoming.

And I know it’s not just me that feels this way.

What about you?

How do you weave all your various interests, creative pursuits, employment, family, dreams and adventures into one life? Any tips?

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5 thoughts on “Weaving a life

  1. One day at a time! I count my blessings to have so many interests; unlike some people that I know, I will never be bored! The main thing is that you look forward to what you have planned for the day.

    You might enjoy this Ted Talk if you’ve not seen it before:



    1. Hi Lisa, that’s so true about never being bored. I actually really like having lots of interests, it’s fitting them all in that is the challenge! Thanks for the link to the Ted talk, I’ll have a look at it later and let you know what I think. I like the one by Marianne Cantwell on a similar subject https://youtu.be/cnooCepNZv4


  2. I can’t remember the name for them, but in Victorian times, I think, there used to be gentlemen of means who dabbled in all sorts of jobs and interests – there was a particular term for it. It would be lovely to be able to have a life in which you could follow all those things. There are so many things I’m interested in that there wouldn’t be time to follow them all up. I used to work full time but now work 4 days a week, so I have one day to focus on more creative things.


    1. Yes, I looked up a few of those guys when I was thinking about the blog post! The Victorian scientists and explorers who were also really good illustrators and writers, and invented telescopes and other scientific equipment, and got involved in the arts etc etc! My other favourite example is Beatrix Potter, best known for writing and illustrating her books for children, and also a fantastic natural history illustrator, keen naturalist, farmer, conservationist and one of the founders of the National Trust!
      I’m a little jealous of your 4 day week, I used to work 4 days a week, it was great. And 3 days a week – that was good too!

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