I am slipping between seasons.
I can sense the afterglow of summer; flowers are blooming, the sun is still warm on my face. Then in another moment I am tumbling towards winter.
The darkness draws me forward.
There is still time after work to dodge the rain showers and squeeze in a walk to the estuary, yet by the time I have finished my evening meal there is blackness outside the window.
Winter guests are arriving along with the first frosts. The geese are back and countless small birds enliven the garden with their flittering flocks. I’m still waiting for a glimpse of redwing, or fieldfare. Tasty berries await their return.
Sometimes it’s still just about warm enough to take my cup of tea to the bench in the front garden, but I spend less time there now.
Of course, there is still work to do outside, weeding and pruning and such, which will build up body heat and make time spent outside feel good. But the mooching, the gazing, the simply being, the doing nothing, the outdoor tai chi practice; the season for all that is ebbing away.
And so the true owners of the garden come to the fore. The blackbirds, robins, wrens, dunnocks, tits, goldcrests, song thrushes, the mice and voles, the squirrels, the spiders and slugs, snails and countless invertebrates. All those beings who spend the entire of the day and the night outside, however cold or wet or grey it gets.
I watch a blackbird probing the lawn for insects and I suddenly realise that the garden belongs to all of them, not to me. They depend on it for survival, I just appear outside occasionally and they watch me with caution until I am gone.
The darkness approaches with relentless speed.
I fight it, just like every year. I wish it wasn’t happening. I dread the clocks changing, darkness before I even leave the office.
I’m not sure when this started. As a child winter and dark evenings just happened, that was just how life was. It didn’t bother me at all.
The winter started with our annual end of October half term Lake District family holiday, an old cottage with no central heating, roasting the chestnuts that we collected in the woods over the open fire, cold bedrooms, huddling under the sheets with hot water bottles. Probably my favourite holiday of the year. Back home, the house was usually warm, and the dark months were punctuated by brightness: Halloween, bonfire night, Christmas.
And I’ve been wondering when I learned to dislike the darkness that comes with winter, the short days, the endless grey and the damp cold.
A run of grey days can hang over me like a bad mood. Then, the sun comes out and everything is OK. Colours come to life. The world around me sparkles. This is perhaps not a good attitude to have developed given that I live in rainy, grey, beautiful north west England.
And yet. Every year there comes a point when I stop fighting the seasons, when I start to see the long dark evenings as something to treasure.
Often, there is not much to do. The working day is over. There are no little jobs to do in the garden, because it’s dark outside. I read. I binge watch tv programmes.
A little idea arrives in my head, about seasons and the approaching darkness. I go outside and reacquaint myself with the stars. Back inside it’s warm. I sit down and I start writing.
We are just at the beginning. There are months of this creative, enveloping darkness ahead. I could choose to welcome it.
What do dark evenings and approaching winter mean to you?
2 thoughts on “Into the darkness”
A beautiful post Sarah. I love the sound of your half-term holidays and you conjure up all the feelings of winter with your words. And I know just how you feel. This year I’ve been dreading the darkness. I’ve wrote in the past about darkness as a fertile time – which I still agree with – but actually, this year something feels different, there’s just a touch of fear there of the dark months. So I’m trying to embrace it in various ways and will write about it at some point when I see whether it’s working!
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Hi Andrea, I hope the fear evaporates and the dark months pass effortlessly. I find the dark easier to bear if I can get outside in the daytime. I’ve just been up a hill in the Cairngorms, cold wind, clear air, first snows on the tops. Now it’s dark outside and oh so cosy infront of the stove in the holiday cottage. Looking forward to reading your winter darkness inspired writing x